Am Brendah, Making 28 years next month, finished my campus and embarked on my career, Loved my career so much that I forgot that one day I need to get married, start kid stuff etc. Years run so fast “banange”, Am about to start lying about my years like Desire, I cant believe am making 30 years, and have just realized I don’t have a guy who I can settle with.
I tried dating twice when I was 24 years but didn’t go well, I guess I might be picky when it comes to Dating Ugandan men.
Anyway I might be not that picky but I find it hard to find a non-psychotic Ugandan bachelor who also enjoys the company of cats, camping and eating pizza (if you’re out there, apply within please, hehehe).
I kind of started feeling pressure recently of being single, u know my young sister Joan her boyfriend did “Kukyala” last Saturday and shes only 23 and guy is 25. Me am 28, partially a virgin becoz had act ounce when I was at campus, with some loser guy I regret upto now, guy lasted I think 20 seconds, so take myself virgin, ok partially virgin.
So back to my pressure of being single, does any lady there feel what I feel? Is it me who has started becoming unsecure, am a very successful single accountant woman working for a bank here in Uganda and i kind of feel time has started ticking on me, When I go to my grand parents, they ask for kids from me, My Senga in Makidye even talked to my mum on phone about me being too educated to get a man, serious Senga!
I’ve been told you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince and therefore we have to subject ourselves to the dreaded first date. Have started to believe that we now live in a time where hookups escalate from an app and dating websites like this one of blind dating uganda. Sometimes work and life style keeps you too busy to connect with people. I work in a bank, u can imagine i have to be there at 8am. and i leave 5:30pm. the only guys i see are the bank men where we work and are too talkative. i fear talkative men ever since i heard some guy describing how the girl he slept with had a funny “subusa”. am confident about my subusa, i know it can make any man dream stars, Had a tough senga, she trained me alot of killer stuff. Anyway i dont like them especially my manager who asks every new chic out and hes single at 41 years old.
I kind of fear strangers, I have only ever been on one blind date and it was as awkward as I’d imagined it to be – I guess I’ll know for next time not to go to a restaurant in kabalagala, Some slut confused me with another chic for some stupid thing in that restaurant, will jazz u that another day but pray for me as I get hooked up with a guy this coming weekend, we have been talking on whatsapp, sounds a cool guy but need to see him now face to face, Got him from this agency.
In Uganda, I really recommend ladies to use Blind dating Uganda, they are the only dating agency have found to be legit, was recommended by a friend who is now living with a date she got from there. hope I croak 30 married.
Happy dating everyone
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